Postby andycarmenjapanese8100 » May 18th, 2013 9:35 pm
I've seen "dou shimashita ka?" used as a phrase when somebody wants to ask another "is something wrong?" but what if I want to ask what somebody has been doing? Would they think that I was inquiring if something bad happened? If so, how do I ask them what they've been doing in a way that doesn't imply that something is wrong?
Postby community.japanese » May 19th, 2013 7:25 am
andy-san, yes; "dou shimashita ka" sounds more like "what's wrong?" or "what's the matter?" to ask someone before offering a help. If you simply want to ask what s/he is doing, it'd be "nani o shiteirun desu ka?", but this can be both simple question and question with suspicious connotaion. I think it's the same in English: what are you doing?
Or, did you want to say "how have you been?" instead of "what are you doing?"
Postby community.japanese » May 20th, 2013 11:32 am
andy-san, yes, you're right; "nani o shite imashita ka" is correct. You can also say "nani o shite itandesu ka". But again, this must be used with "soft tone of voice" not to sound offensive.