While I can agree with the gist of your post, there are a couple of things that I have to take issue with:
Robato wrote:The key to Japanese is verb conjugation and I had it drilled for ages .if you cant do this you cant speak Japanese . Its awaste of time learning lots of vocabulary.
If anything, in my experience Japanese is a language where you can go a long way with just a bunch of words and limited grammar knowledge. Anyway, it's not like it's difficult to switch between the basic tenses, most people only really run into serious difficulties with the passive and causative.
Robato wrote:My Japanese boss thought kanji was a waste of of time for foreigners really. I even bought a kanji dictionary and carried it with me but barely used it as it was complicated to use it!!
its so frustrating you can spend 10 years in Japan or more and never be able to read your gas bill, write a kanji for asimple word.
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sure its also frusrating that you cant read documents at the bank, reports from doctors , be unable to read newspaers etc after many years in japan
It's pretty typical for Japanese people to think that understanding kanji is beyond the grasp of someone from outside Asia. In fact, they will be frequently stunned that you can manage to read Hiragana. It's hardly surprising then that your boss thought learning kanji was a waste of time. That doesn't mean he was right.
And I've got to say that if after ten years you couldn't read your gas bill and those other things you mention, I have to challenge your assertion that it was frustrating. If you are interested in learning the writing system and have the necessary motivation, then surely ten years is more that enough time to at least be able to deal with the documents you handle on a regular basis.
Robato wrote:to us seems strange that we would not know how to write say the flower name rose.Ask most Japanese they cant do it. An extreme example I know. Its difficult kanji.
Not only is it an extreme example, it is also meaningless. Japanese people can write the word rose. It's バラ. The question is can you write the word rose in Gothic script? I can't.
Robato wrote:So to try and sum up dont worry about kanji you will not need it unless you are majoring in Japanese or want to be a translator basically.
I don't match your criteria, but my life in Japan would be far poorer if I couldn't use kanji. If you're in Japan for an extended period of time and can't follow the written form of communication you will always find yourself detached in some way from the world around you.
Right, I feel better now I've got all that off my chest. As I said, I agree with the gist of your post, which is:
Robato wrote:Work on the grammar , verb conjugation ,vocabularly , speaking, learning about the culture --its much much more important than kanji.
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You can burn hours and hours on kanji but you will not get the same rewards as devoting that time to speaking, listening, building your relationships etc
Exactly. Studying kanji can easily swallow up all your time. Time that would probably have been better spent learning how to communicate and interact with the people around you. Even so, if someone has the ambition to master kanji then by all means fit it into your learning schedule. Learning to read and write is very much doable.