talking with girls

[telini]

also, you would not want to use -chan if you were not very close to the person

うん、でも「ちゃん」はかわいいですよ　:-)

"Hast du Lust mal mit mir nen Kaffee trinken zu gehen?"
sounds more like
"would you maybe like to go to a cafe together sometime?"

I know, my english is not so well, thats why I copied the german too^^

so, here we go. I am weak with kanji, but let me try

「名前」、一緒にコーヒーを飲みませんか。
「なまえ」、いっしょにコーヒーをのみませんか。
"Namae", issho ni koohii o nomimasen ka?'
"name", wouldn't you like to drink some coffee with me?

一緒にコーヒーを飲みに行きませんか。
いっしょにコーヒーをのみにいきませんか。
'Issho ni koohii o nomi ni ikimasen ka?'
Wouldn't you like to go out with me to get some coffee?

一緒に喫茶店行こうか。
いっしょにきっさてんいこうか。
Issho ni kissaten ikou ka?
together cafe go? Hm. Dont know this verbform.

喫茶店でコーヒー飲んで行く
きっさてんでコーヒーのんでいく
kissaten de koohii non de iku
cafe coofee drink go. öhm.. here I understand none of the grammar^^

コーヒー飲む
コーヒーのむ
koohii nomu?
Wanna drink coofee? (If you are standing in front of a cafe)


atomsk-さん、quixot-さん、ありがとうございます

[atomsk]

if you dont understand something then it may be because i made errors ^^

一緒に喫茶店に行こう？
Issho ni kissaten ni ikou?
shall we go to a cafe together?

喫茶店でコーヒー飲むに行こう？
kissaten de kohi nomu ni ikou?
cafe de(place of action) coffee drink ni(direction) go(presumptive)
Shall we go drink coffee in a cafe?

[Javizy]

一緒に喫茶店行こうか。
いっしょにきっさてんいこうか。
Issho ni kissaten ikou ka?
together cafe go? Hm. Dont know this verbform.

Ikou is the plain volitional form of iku (the plain equivalent of ikimashou). You just change the ending U syllable to the O column and add う. Add よう to the masu stem of Class II verbs.

Oyogu > oyogou
Nomu > nomou
Asobu > asobou
Matsu > matou

Hajimeru > hajimeyou

Suru > shiyou
Kuru > koyou

So it would read 'let's go to a cafe together/ would you like to go to a cafe together'. However I'm pretty sure you need a に before the ikou to indicate kissaten as the target of the going action.

[dmr214]

Cute! Maybe you could say

koohii nomi ni ikanai no?

Why don't we go get a coffee?

[hrd]

from my experience

良かったら，今度どこかへ遊びに行こうか？
yokattara, kondo dokoka he asobi ni ikou ka?
if okay,let's go out somewhere next time?

良かったら，今度どこかへ飲みに行こうか？
yokattara, kondo dokoka he nomi ni ikou ka?
if okay,let's go for a drink somewhere next time?

Well all depend on situations and the girls you want to ask

[Outkast]

My favorite:

文句ある？！去って！
monku aru?! satte!

Guaranteed to get the girls every time...

[Ulver_684]

from my experience

良かったら，今度どこかへ遊びに行こうか？
yokattara, kondo dokoka he asobi ni ikou ka?
if okay,let's go out somewhere next time?

良かったら，今度どこかへ飲みに行こうか？
yokattara, kondo dokoka he nomi ni ikou ka?
if okay,let's go for a drink somewhere next time?

Well all depend on situations and the girls you want to ask

I agree Hrd-san!