Hi
I've been studying Japanese on and off for about 10 years now. Between 2005 and 2007 i took university courses in Sweden and I went to Tokyo for a year. After my year in Japan I started doing other things so my Japanese gradually got worse. Since then I have tried several times to get back to studying but I always fail. I've been able to keep the really basic stuff in my head because my wife is Japanese so I get some practice at home, she speaks Swedish and English but if she gets angry or annoyed with me she tends to switch to Japanese. I have totally forgotten kanji and I can only read the really basic ones.
My number one problem with studying is that I can't seem to find the right level to start. If I start with the really basic stuff the grammar and vocabulary does not feel challenging. I've flipped through my old textbooks (Genki 1 & 2) and I feel like I know the grammar pretty good. If I start at an intermediate level I always get stuck with kanji because of my low reading skills. I've tried Heisigs Remembering the Kanji but I found it to be ineffective.
I'm guessing I'm not the first one to end up in a situation like this so I thought I'd ask here to see if anyone has any tips on how to get back on track. I guess my ideal thing would be to find a slow but effective system for studying where I can improve my Japanese over time without forgetting. I'm not going for full fluency but I would love to be somewhere around N2 fluency. I'm somewhere in the N3/N4 region now (probably lower for kanji).
I love using a good textbook so if anyone knows of a good textbook that fits my current situation please tell me.