arkazain-san,
hello and welcome to the forums!
As for the Kanji learning, that's a tricky one, because it's such a complex task, that everyone has to find it's own way. So, at best you try out a bit.
Me personally, I don't believe, that a grown up person with another native language can learn Kanji the way japanese kids do, because those already know the language when they start learning the Kanji. As a foreigner, you usually learn the language and the Kanji at the same time.
At first: No matter what: It's work, and it takes time. Simply reject any idea or system, that promises you a quick and easy way, to cram 2300+ of alien signs with different readings into your brain. Unless your blessed with an eiditic memory, it won't work.
Here's MY way, which I can recommend.
Start with the Heisig method. James W. Heisig published two (main) books. "Remembering the Kanji I" shows you a lot of mnemonics, to learn the WRITING and MEANING of the Joujou-Kanji, the 2200+ Main Kanji recommend for reading Newspaper and stuff.
The second book, "Remembering the Kanji II" shows you the On Reading and has some helps for the Kun-readings.
Anyway, the second book isn't so much different from all the other Kanji books out there.
The first on the other hand can(!) be a big help. I recommend, working it through, slowly and concentrated. I took 3,5 Months daily studies for it.
You won't be able to read much after it, since you don't know the readings of the Kanji, but it has 3 strong points, spending that time:
a) you lose any fear you might have had of Kanji. You simply spend a lot of time with a lot of Kanji, breaking them down into little peaces, until they become quite familiar.
b) you learn a lot of helps for remembering the meaning
c) you learn how to write Kanji. A lot. Many of them!
At the end, most likely you won't remember all 2200+ Kanji you learned here, At least I didn't, but it's still a good base for the next step:
Simply learn japanese vocabulary!
When you start learning the language, and you build up Vocabulary, you'll learn the Kanji automatically. And HERE all the work with Heisig will pay off, since in the end, you will remember faster, which Kanji build up which word, and the Knot from Meaning-Kanji-Vocabulary quickly make sense in your head.
You'll learn the reading autmatically, when you learn the vocabulary.
I strictly recommend, learning the Kanji in context with their Words. What good does it to you, to know, that 望 has the reading "ぼう" and "もう" and means "wish", when you stumble upon words like 希望, 大望, 要望? You'll have to learn no matter what, that these words are き
ぼう, たい
もう and よう
ぼう.
So, any second spent on studying Kanji is a good one. But you should study and learn them in context, with vocabulary. The Heisig method might be a good base for this work, maybe not. The method doesn't work for everyone.
So, this is MY way of slowly clawing my way up the 山 of 漢字.
Maybe for you another one fits better. Just try it out, but expect it to take time. And effort. But it's also very rewarding!
Oh, and one more thing: In the beginning, it's kinda frustrating, slow going and seems like a neverending issue. Keep on it though, with time, as you grow more competent and secure in Japanese in general, a lot of what seems ridiculously random at first, looks a lot more logical later on, and the more you know and learn, the easier and quicker it gets to learn new stuff. Learning Kanji starts with a steep curve, but it gets easier the farther you come.
Good luck and much fun,
くろくま