Postby Airth » August 23rd, 2006 12:57 am
OK, so my initial response was somewhat flippant, but I stand by what I say from 6 years of experience. There is nothing wrong with giving a nod and making eye contact apart from the possibility of surprising the person who greeted you.
As a general observation, whenever you start interacting too politely with people in the service industry you put them in an uncomfortable situation. You have to be conscious of not beating their level of politeness. I find that dealings with shop and restaurant staff in particular tend to be carried out in a perfunctory manner by many customers; something I've never personally liked about the culture.
Jockzon, when you've seen people nodding in JDramas were they regular customers of the shop or restaurant? I think once you are familiar with somewhere, you would probably want to acknowledge the staff in a more respectful way.