I don't know, I suppose I just got used to reading Japanese! To be honest, I moved onto Kanji ASAP after about a month of study, it helps a lot in regards to spliting up words, etc. I do get a little confused when I see hiragana sentences at times though.
She is asking you a question because she used the か particle at the end. =)
~られる forms...
Here's a pretty good explanation of how they're used!
Here's a relevant example...
その えいが みられました か?
= Did you see that film? or Was that film seen by you?
POTENTIAL FORM.
られる can be 'to be able'. E.g., an example given on that link is:
なんでも たべられます
= I can/am able to eat anything.
Equivalent to なんでも たべる こと が できます.
PASSIVE FORM.
りんご は わたし に たべられました
= I ate the apple. or The apple was eaten by me.
りんご は あなた に たべられましたか?
= Did you eat the apple? or Was the apple eaten by you?
I hope that helps too, heh. And I hope I'm explaining this well or correctly. I don't think I even use this form much if at all actually. No idea why!
I would ask her to speak Standard Japanese whilst you are learning, it may be too hard otherwise. Although I'm sure she wouldn't speak much in them though anyways.
EDIT: It's worth mentioning about きょう は... Often it means Today in respects to, "Regarding today, I did this" or "As for today..". Not about the day itself. Some people just put きょう to, like, "きょう、".
E.g., [I pulled this up after doing a Google search]
"今日は科学と英語の授業をした"
(きょう は かがく と えいご の じゅぎょう を した)
= Today, I did science and English class work.