that's me!!!!
and the maid bar i go to is the best one. all the others are pretty lame, imo.
mostly guys go, but sometimes girls go too.
and it's cheaper for girls to go.
they'll call you お嬢様 hehehehehe.
the one i recommend is in shin-nakano.
it's
Heaven Revolution (or HR for short).
one of the maids, maniko-chan, is doing illustrations for jpod101.
you can see her drawings in the series "a narrow escape."
here is a link to HR's website:
http://ip.tosp.co.jp/i.asp?i=heavenrevolution
(you can see the main cast's illustrations, from left to right nora-chan, hime-chan, maniko-chan).
here is a link to HR's blog:
http://blog.livedoor.jp/heaven0620/
after you go there, they write a personal message to you the next day in the blog. it's not easy to read because there are a lot of inside jokes and otaku slang, but it's always fun to check out to see what they to you the next day.
they have nintendo wii and MASSIVE screen to play it on. they have PS2, Nintendo FamiCon, if you bring your PSP or DS you can play games with everyone together. the manager is a really cool guy who wants the place to feel like his home and everyone just comes over to hang out and play with the maids. 超楽しいぞ!
i love it! (and i don't watch anime, read manga or do any otaku things - but it's a fun way to practice japanese because nobody there can speak english. and the maids are extremely entertaining).
i recommend anybody who is interested in going to a maid bar, to go to HR and forget the rest. lol.
if you go, tell them marky sent you!! i bet they'll be extra cool to you.