foxyshez wrote:when i first had it served that way i had to email my friend and ask. we were sitting at the counter so i didn't want to look foolish.
Let's reverse the order for a second here:
Situation 1: You're a Japanese bartender and you're serving a drink that your customer clearly has no clue how to drink. He's doing it wrong, and everyone around is starting to look amused but social custom dictates that neither you nor anyone else can say anything about it. The customer leaves unawares, and that's that... another
gaijin who doesn't understand the language or the customs.
Situation 2: Is set up the same way, only this time the customer opens his mouth and manages to blurt out an awkward but somehow comprehensible "umm excuse me, first time see this, tell me how to drink please?" You make an explanation through simple words and gestures, and the custom is learned however clumsy the process may have been. The customer leaves, leaving you with the satisfaction that you were able to impart part of your culture to a foreigner who was actually interested in learning about it.
Now, does situation 2 really put the customer in a worse light?
Japanese sake is yummy
That it is, sir, that it is.