Unfortunately, not being a myspace member, I can't myself view the image, but it is pretty understood in the "kanji culture" that men tend to write characters more rigidly and women tend to flow the strokes together. As for reading, I found handwriting extremely difficult until I learned to write the characters myself-- only then does one get an intimate understanding of stroke order and start to process how things are simplified/slurred in rapid writing.
As an example, see the image:
Even if you already know the character
福, those who are well acquainted with stroke order will find it much easier to understand how everything is slurred together.
So yeah, learn the stroke order-- it helps lots.